Thank you all for commenting. I gave every one a "like". For me this thread has been very educational. Many of the comments was frank and honest. Just as the title of a book about the differences in the sexes said "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus". It just shows we all have a long way to go. Still Totally ADD
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Matt Layer of NBC terminated for inappropriate sexual behavior
by Still Totally ADD inhere we go again another will known public figure being abusive towards women.
as heart breaking it is i am glad it is coming out.
it takes a brave person to bring these things out.. could this be the catalyst that may expose the wt.
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Matt Layer of NBC terminated for inappropriate sexual behavior
by Still Totally ADD inhere we go again another will known public figure being abusive towards women.
as heart breaking it is i am glad it is coming out.
it takes a brave person to bring these things out.. could this be the catalyst that may expose the wt.
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Redvip, do you feel there is a difference from unwarranted touching a women and telling a women who you do not have a relationship with " would you like to f--k" is different? I feel they are both inappropriate sexual behavior. Yes all men have testicles and yes many men listen more to their little head over the big head. Still does not make it right. A real man knows how to control those thoughts and never take action on those thoughts.
Women are not object's for uncontrollable desires a man may have. Sad fact is many men do not think this way and many women have taken it for granted that all men act that way. A women work mate of mine several years ago told my wife and me when Donald Trump was accused of inappropriate sexual behavior that all men do that. I said I never have done that and my wife said no man has ever done that to her. She told us she knew I would never do that. The point I am trying to make is there is a big problem with many men's thinking and it needs to change.
Let me get off my soap box. Blondie good to hear from you. Take care. Still Totally ADD
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Matt Layer of NBC terminated for inappropriate sexual behavior
by Still Totally ADD inhere we go again another will known public figure being abusive towards women.
as heart breaking it is i am glad it is coming out.
it takes a brave person to bring these things out.. could this be the catalyst that may expose the wt.
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Sorry for the misspelling of Matt Lauer name. This damm computer changes the spelling of certain words. Drives me nuts sometime. Still Totally ADD
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Secret sex in the Org
by pomo6780 in2 pioneers of the opposite sex.
the brother is in his mid-20s, sister is in her late 20s.
both are alone in car as the only 2 out in field service.
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The more the cult talks about how certain kinds of sex is bad the more the members will do it. I heard things from the stage I would have never thought of. I always found it interesting how a God made us to have sex and made it enjoyable but religion came along and put so many restrictions on it. Talk about control with guilt!!l. Still Totally ADD
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Happy Birthday to you Cimarrona. Have a great day. Still Totally ADD
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Matt Layer of NBC terminated for inappropriate sexual behavior
by Still Totally ADD inhere we go again another will known public figure being abusive towards women.
as heart breaking it is i am glad it is coming out.
it takes a brave person to bring these things out.. could this be the catalyst that may expose the wt.
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Here we go again another will known public figure being abusive towards women. As heart breaking it is I am glad it is coming out. It takes a brave person to bring these things out.
Could this be the catalyst that may expose the Wt. Cult to there abusive cover ups? With this in the news all the time recently what are those who have gone through this in the Borg thinking? Could it be a explosion of those coming forward? I know time will tell what happens but it will be interesting to see what happens.
What are your thoughts? Still Totally ADD
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Did You Know “Weird JWs” When You Were In The Organization?
by minimus init could be argued that all jws are weird.
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i’m referring to really weird odd witnesses.. most of the oddballs that i remember were elders..
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I don't have enough fingers and toes to count how many weird ones I knew in the organization. Still Totally ADD
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No more talk about the Org. regarding Sexual abuse on this site ....what happened ???
by tor1500 inthe other day on this site, a lot of topics about the org.
and sexual abuse...now when i come on this site...crickets... what happened ?
it seems everyone is being exposed except the org...oh yes it's mentioned here and there but then it fades away...many celebrities are being exposed....& gov't officials and even our president, but not the org...ummmm.... thoughts ?.
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Thank-you Tor for bringing this up. I don't understand why you got a dislike but I do understand why some feel the way they do. Faithnomore you are right about how these subjects trigger emotional turmoil to victim's. Being a victim myself when this subject came up when I was a newbie on this site it did make me very uneasy. I am 63 year old male and it stills hits me once in awhile. I found the more I talk about it the better I feel. My thoughts are keep talking about it. For those who never had this misfortune how lucky you are but Keep listening, keep listening.
I feel all who have escape from the Wt. cult have been abused in one way or another. In many cases the effects are the same. After being stunted in emotional growth for so long we all need to take time to work on our problems and grow. In this world I find it so sickening to still see victim's of abuse are looked down on when they bravely come out and expose the abuser. Let us all speak openly and honestly on this subject.
Lastly thank you darkspilver for posting these new sites to help victim's of abuse. Still Totally ADD
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Making real friends
by KindEyes inhiya, firstly i’m new to this website, so sorry if this topic has been covered before.
i have been out of “the truth” for almost one year.
i live with my non-witness mother, have an amazing boyfriend, work and am in college.
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Welcome to the forum. It will take a lot of work on your part. This is a problem we all have since we left the cult and the reason is in the cult we was told everyone there was our friends. It took very little work on our part to make friends. In real life it take great effort to make good friends. I will stop here for there are better qualified ones on this site that can relate to you better and can give you good advice.
I am sure my wife will chime in on this subject. She is shy just like you. Good luck to you. So nice to have you on this board. Take care. Still Totally ADD
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Deceptive comments or lies that you have heard from platform or brothers & sisters?
by Farmer Jim1 inok, so what are the most deceptive comments that you have heard from your experience in congregations?.
my top three are;.
1) service overseer during the ’ how did we do?’ annual talk, twisted the figures to such an extent that it looked like the congregations ministry was in tip-top shape.
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I laugh at it now but in the day I thought it was true. Reading the Wt. and Awake was like having a college education. Going to college is evil because all all that goes on is sex, drugs and rock-n-roll this is no place for a Christian. Circuit overseer telling me there is no child abuse taking place in the organization. Still ADD